PSYCHOLOGIST-BUILT EXERCISES & COACHING

Modern dating is broken. You're not.

Work with a licensed psychologist to understand your patterns, get clear on what you truly want, and date with intention — and the confidence to finally choose well.Only 15 spots available

Why combine therapy with dating

Most people date for years and never learn why it isn't working. You're about to.

Guided by Oscar pairs you with a psychologist who specializes in dating, proven exercises, and real support, so you stop guessing and start choosing with clarity.Dating should feel like self-growth, not self-doubt.

FEATURES

What's included - every month

1:1 coaching

A 60-minute 1:1 video
session with a licensed
psychologist who has 15+ years of experience.

Psychologist support

Ongoing messaging
support between
sessions on our platform.

Personalised exercises

Receive personalized exercises designed by our therapist, to reflect, grow, and reset.

Social introductions

Introductions to other participants and members, and exclusive events and webinars.

Curated resources

Receive research summaries on dating and love and gain access to exclusive resources.

Easy-to-use platform

Guided by Oscar provides a single interface for your coaching sessions, your assigned exercises, and resources.

LET'S GET REAL

Therapist-guided
dating is for you if...

✓ You’re serious about finding love — and want to feel supported along the way.✓ You feel emotionally sensitive or burnt out from dating (apps).✓ You keep attracting the wrong people or repeating patterns.✓ You’ve recently been through heartbreak or are re-entering the dating scene.✓ You want to stop second-guessing yourself and date with clarity.

LIMITED AVAILABILITY

Claim one of the 15
available spots

To maintain quality and deep personal support, this program is capped at 15 participants in each location.“For the first time, I feel like I understand why I was choosing the wrong people — and what to do about it. It gave me the confidence to not settle for less and express my needs and boundaries more clearly.”Claire, 34 years, Amsterdam

Pricing

129.99 / month | Cancel anytime
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TESTIMONIALS

What participants are saying

I tried Matched by Oscar because I was tired of spending a lot of time on dating apps chatting with people I’d never meet in person. The Matched by Oscar experience was a fun way of meeting someone new. I am not sure yet if there's a romantic spark, but surely I made a new friend!

Anna, 32 years old | Amsterdam

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Membership options

Find the right membership for you - cancel or upgrade anytime.

Connect

Free membership, pay per date.

12.99 / date

  • Wait in line to be matched

  • 4-6 weeks on average to go on a date, may vary per location

  • Receive standard bio of match

  • Pay a €12.99 participation fee per date

Signature

First in-line & tailored matchmaking.

49.99 / month

  • Highest priority in the matching queue

  • Dates are free of charge

  • Receive extended bio (incl. photo) of your match

  • Advanced feedback after each date to refine your future matches

Psychologist-Guided Dating

1:1 therapy + social introductions

129.99 / month

  • 45-minute 1:1 session with a licensed psychologist every month

  • Messaging access to your therapist between sessions & dates (within scope).

  • Highest priority in the matching queue

  • Dates are free of charge

  • Receive extended bio (incl. photo) of your match

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Privacy PolicyWe are dedicated to safeguarding your privacy and treating your personal data with respect and care. This privacy policy outlines how we handle the personal information we gather about you when you use our services and interact with our website.What information do we collect about you?
We collect information about you when you sign up to create a dating profile on our platform. This includes, but is not limited to, personal details necessary for creating and managing your dating profile.How do we use this information?
We use your information to match you with potential dates based on your profile preferences.
If you opt-in, send you emails to update you about potential matches and other related services. We do not use subscriptions; instead, we focus on offering personalized matching services. You have the option to request the deletion of your profile at any time - if you’d like your personal data to be deleted, please email hi@matchedbyoscar.com. Additionally, you can unsubscribe from emails whenever you choose from the footer in the emails.Data sharing and third parties
We do not share your personal data with third parties. All information you provide to us is used exclusively for the purposes mentioned above. Your privacy and the integrity of your data are paramount to us.Incorporation and compliance
Matched by Oscar is incorporated in the United States, and we adhere to the relevant data protection and privacy laws applicable within the US.Access to your information and correction
You have the right to request a copy of the information that we hold about you. If you wish to access, correct, or delete any of your personal information, please email us at hi@matchedbyoscar.com.Changes to our privacy policy
We regularly review our privacy policy and will update it as necessary on our website. This policy was last updated on 01/01/2024.How to contact us
If you have any questions about our privacy policy or the information we hold about you, please do not hesitate to contact us at hi@matchedbyoscar.com.

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You should have received an email with our dating intake form. It's important to fill this out, we won't be able to find you a compatible match until you complete the questionnaire.Please check your spam if you have not received it within the next 5 minutes!To get matched with priority and to receive additional information about your match, take a look at our membership options.

I signed up for a date because I don't like to spend much time on dating apps and prefer to meet girls in real-life, yet between work and my social life I end up not meeting many girls organically. This was a fun way to meet someone new!

James, 36 | London

4921 members

Thousands of members are ready for real-life connections.

84,5% success rate

Most participants want another introduction.

50/50 gender balance

49.2% of our database is male, and 50.8% is female.

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COACHING & CURATED SOCIAL INTRODUCTIONS

The antidote to swiping culture

The era of endless swiping and chatting without ever meeting up is over. Let's return to the charm of real-life connections. Let our team coach you and help you with social introductions.

AN EVENING WORTH ANTICIPATING

Here’s how Oscar will help you
with social introductions

  1. Complete our intake: Tell us about yourself so we can find you the right fit.

  2. Let our team do the work: We carefully handpick a compatible match for you.

  3. Review your introduction & confirm: You'll receive each other's bio via email, simply submit your availability and confirm your interest by covering the participation fee.

  4. Enjoy a fun social outing: We will organise the gathering for you. Just show up, and let the magic—or should we say chemistry?—unfold.

  5. Share your feedback: After the introduction, share your thoughts with us so that we can introduce you with even more precision next time!

No swiping, no endless texting; just a fun evening out in real-life. Are you ready?

LET'S GET REAL

Why get Matched by Oscar?

✓ Actively get introduced to new people
No more waiting around, get introduced to someone who fits you and meet them directly for a drink.✓ Introductions based on compatibility
Our formula is backed by scientific research on what truly leads to lasting connections.✓ No swiping, no endless texting, no ghosting
Skip the endless texting and uncertainty: just show up and enjoy a fun night out. You can only chat with your match 1 our prior to the gathering.✓ We know the coziest spots for dates!
We handle everything, from the match to the venue, so you can simply focus on the experience.

SAFETY & QUALITY ASSURANCE

Socialize with peace of mind

Meeting new people can be both exhilarating and daunting. Let us put your concerns to rest:

No ghosting allowed

Those who forsake manners will be frozen for 4 weeks.

Handpicked, secure venues

Each introduction is organised at a cozy bar where staff are ever-present.

We screen every participant

Every participant is carefully screened and verified before being matched.

Oscar's support awaits

Our dedicated team is just a Whatsapp message away.