MATCHMAKING & BLIND DATES

The antidote to dating apps

The era of endless swiping and chatting without ever meeting up is over. Let's return to the charm of real-life connections.Allow me, Oscar, to find you a compatible match and set you up on a blind date.

4468 daters

Thousands of members are ready for real-life connections.

84,5% success rate

Most participants want to go on another date.

50/50 gender balance

49.2% of our database is male, and 50.8% is female.

AN EVENING WORTH ANTICIPATING

Here’s how Oscar will set you
up on a blind date

  1. Complete our dating intake: Tell us about yourself so we can find you the right match.

  2. Let our matchmakers do the work: We carefully handpick a compatible match for you.

  3. Review your match & confirm: You'll receive your match’s bio via email, simply submit your availability and confirm your interest by covering the participation fee.

  4. Enjoy a fun evening out: We will organise the date for you. Just show up, and let the magic—or should we say chemistry?—unfold.

  5. Share your feedback: After the date, share your thoughts with us so that we can match you with even more precision next time!

No swiping, no endless texting; just a fun evening out in real-life. Are you ready?

LET'S GET REAL

Why get Matched by Oscar?

✓ Go actively on dates
No more waiting around, get matched with someone who fits you and meet them directly for a drink.✓ Get matched on compatibility
Our matchmaking formula is backed by scientific research on what truly leads to lasting connections.✓ No swiping, no endless texting, no ghosting
Skip the endless texting and uncertainty: just show up and enjoy a fun night out. You can only chat with your match 1 our prior to the date.✓ We know the coziest spots for dates!
We handle everything, from the match to the venue, so you can simply focus on the experience.

SAFETY & QUALITY ASSURANCE

Date with peace of mind

Embarking on a blind date can be both exhilarating and daunting. Let us put your concerns to rest:

No ghosting allowed

Those who forsake manners will be frozen for 4 weeks.

Handpicked, secure venues

Each date is organised at a cozy bar where staff are ever-present.

We screen every dater

Every participant is carefully screened and verified before being matched.

Oscar's support awaits

Our dedicated team is just a Whatsapp message away.

TESTIMONIALS

What participants are saying

I tried Matched by Oscar because I was tired of spending a lot of time on dating apps chatting with people I’d never meet in person. The Matched by Oscar experience was a fun way of meeting someone new. I am not sure yet if there's a romantic spark, but surely I made a new friend!

Anna, 32 years old | Amsterdam

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Membership options

Find the right membership for you - cancel or upgrade anytime.

Connect

Free membership, pay per date.

12.99 / date

  • Wait in line to be matched

  • 4-6 weeks on average to go on a date, may vary per location

  • Receive standard bio of match

  • Pay a €12.99 participation fee per date

Signature

First in-line & tailored matchmaking.

49.99 / month

  • Highest priority in the matching queue

  • Dates are free of charge

  • Receive extended bio (incl. photo) of your match

  • Advanced feedback after each date to refine your future matches

Psychologist-Guided Dating

1:1 therapy + matchmaking

129.99 99.99 / month

  • 45-minute 1:1 session with a licensed psychologist every month

  • Messaging access to your therapist between sessions & dates (within scope).

  • Highest priority in the matching queue

  • Dates are free of charge

  • Receive extended bio (incl. photo) of your match

  • Learn more >

Privacy PolicyWe are dedicated to safeguarding your privacy and treating your personal data with respect and care. This privacy policy outlines how we handle the personal information we gather about you when you use our services and interact with our website.What information do we collect about you?
We collect information about you when you sign up to create a dating profile on our platform. This includes, but is not limited to, personal details necessary for creating and managing your dating profile.How do we use this information?
We use your information to match you with potential dates based on your profile preferences.
If you opt-in, send you emails to update you about potential matches and other related services. We do not use subscriptions; instead, we focus on offering personalized matching services. You have the option to request the deletion of your profile at any time - if you’d like your personal data to be deleted, please email hi@matchedbyoscar.com. Additionally, you can unsubscribe from emails whenever you choose from the footer in the emails.Data sharing and third parties
We do not share your personal data with third parties. All information you provide to us is used exclusively for the purposes mentioned above. Your privacy and the integrity of your data are paramount to us.Incorporation and compliance
Matched by Oscar is incorporated in the United States, and we adhere to the relevant data protection and privacy laws applicable within the US.Access to your information and correction
You have the right to request a copy of the information that we hold about you. If you wish to access, correct, or delete any of your personal information, please email us at hi@matchedbyoscar.com.Changes to our privacy policy
We regularly review our privacy policy and will update it as necessary on our website. This policy was last updated on 01/01/2024.How to contact us
If you have any questions about our privacy policy or the information we hold about you, please do not hesitate to contact us at hi@matchedbyoscar.com.

Thank you for signing up!

!! Important:

You should have received an email with our dating intake form. It's important to fill this out, we won't be able to find you a compatible match until you complete the questionnaire.Please check your spam if you have not received it within the next 5 minutes!To get matched with priority and to receive additional information about your match, take a look at our membership options.

I signed up for a date because I don't like to spend much time on dating apps and prefer to meet girls in real-life, yet between work and my social life I end up not meeting many girls organically. This was a fun way to meet someone new!

James, 36 | London

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REAL GROWTH. REAL CONNECTIONS.

Join our psychologist-
guided dating program

Our monthly program combines 1:1 guidance from a licensed psychologist with priority matchmaking — including one curated date per month.Only 15 spots available

1:1 THERAPY + MATCHMAKING

Why combine therapy with dating

Modern dating is emotionally complex. Most platforms are built for swiping, not for depth — leaving you overwhelmed, unsure, or stuck in the same patterns.Our program combines matchmaking with 1:1 therapy sessions led by our in-house licensed psychologist, who has over 15 years of experience. This means you get matches and the tools to make them count!Dating should feel like self-growth, not self-doubt.

FEATURES

What's included - every month

1:1 therapy

A 45-minute 1:1 video
session with a licensed
psychologist who has 15+ years of experience.

Psychologist support

Ongoing messaging
support between
sessions & dates (within
scope).

Personalised exercises

After each date, receive personalized exercises designed by our therapist, to reflect, grow, and reset.

Priority matchmaking

Priority matchmaking,
with a minimum of 1
match per month.

Detailed profiles

Receive extended profiles, including a photo of your match.

Free dates

Go on Matched by Oscar dates
free of charge.

LET'S GET REAL

Therapist-guided
dating is for you if...

✓ You’re serious about finding love — and want to feel supported along the way.✓ You feel emotionally sensitive or burnt out from dating (apps).✓ You keep attracting the wrong people or repeating patterns.✓ You’ve recently been through heartbreak or are re-entering the dating scene.✓ You want to stop second-guessing yourself and date with clarity.

Pricing

129,99 99.99 / month | Cancel anytime
Special start of 2026 offer - valid till 01/02/2026.
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LIMITED AVAILABILITY

Claim one of the 15
available spots

To maintain quality and deep personal support, this program is capped at 15 participants in each location.“For the first time, I feel like I understand why I was choosing the wrong people — and what to do about it. It gave me the confidence to not settle for less and express my needs and boundaries more clearly.”Claire, 34 years, Amsterdam